Parents-children relationships

Parents-children relationships are complicated, especially when children turn into raging teenagers, who defy their parents to reach their independence. They will do anything to keep far away from their parents' care. They will talk back to their parents, argue and rival them so their relationships with their parents will be damaged.

My relationship with my parents is very complicated with a lot of punishments, arguments and crying. However, we have those little happy moments like every normal family. Most of the time, we argue about stupid things, saying hard words that hurt us, but we know this isn't supposed to occur. Sometimes, we spend many weeks without talking to each other. Yet, as we know to fight we also know to apologize and forgive.

I think that there is more than one reason for the problematic relationships between parents and children. First, their strong inclination to keep us in their field of view. They want to keep us from suffer(ing)  but forget that we are adults and responsible for our actions and sometimes need space and independence to take care of ourselves. The second reason is the difference between the generations. When they were youngsters, their values ​​and conventions were different from these days. I believe that we can overcome all the arguments and achieve peace at home by listening, if one of the sides is more patient to the other, I think that most of our problems at home will be solved.

To sum up, there will always be arguments and complicated parent-children relationships, but there is a solution to improve the situation at home, and save the relationship between parents and children.

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Daphna